Uruhare rw’umugabo mu gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’wo bashakanye
Abagabo benshi bakunze guhubukira abagore babo bakabakorera imibonano itaryoshye cyangwa ntibayishimire kandi burya imibonano murugo ari inkingi yambere yo kurukomeza.
Nkuko tubikesha abashakashatsi bavuga ko mbere yo guhuza urugwiro n’uwo mwashakanye ugomba kubanza kwitegereze intoki zawe niba zisukuye bihagije maze ukarebe niba inzara zawe ziciye kubera ko abagore baryoherwa no gukorerwa imibonano ariko ukoresha n’intoki,bivuze ko igihe inzara zawe zidaciye ushobora kumukomeretsa.
Ubwanwa bwawe bugomba kuba bwogoshe kandi budahanda kuko igihe ugiye gukorakora ukoresha ururimi ku ibere cyangwa se ahandi, bushobora kumuhanda.
Kuba imisatsi imera hasi ku gitsina yogoshe kuko umugore wawe najya kugukorakora kumyanya ndangagitsina agasanga nta suku ihari ariwe ntazumva amerewe neza kandi nawe ntuzumva neza uburyohe buri guturuka muri kwa kugukorakora.
Burya umisatsi imera kumyanya ndanga gitsina simyiza kuko ibika umwanda uva mu cyuya cyo mu mayasha.
Ugomba kuba utanuka mu kanwa,niba unuka reba akantu gahumura warya cyangwa wanywa mbere yo gukora imibonano, hekenya ka shikareti cyangwa unywe ka Divayi .
Tangira umukorakora gahoro gahoro kumubiri wibanda cyane ku moko z’amabere ku matako no hagati y’amabere, uko umukorakora mwegereze umunwa gahoro gahoro ubundi utangira umusome buhoro buhoro. Niba ubona umugore wawe atangiye gusabwa nubushyuhe tangira ku mukuramo imyenda gahoro gahoro.
Menya kwicisha ipfa uwo mwashakanye, umukorakora hose ariko wibanda kumyanya ndangagitsina; Niwumva amaze koroha menya ko watangira kumushimisha nyir’izina.
tangira buhoro buhoro udahita umera nk’ifuku yinjira mu mwobo kugirango utamubabaza kubakuru murumva icyo mvuze.
Koresha ubwitonzi kugingo yorohere nawe ubyumve ku buryo arekura amatembabuzi dore ko abagabo benshi banabikunda.
Muri uko kubikora ugomba kwibuka ko aribwo buryo buryohera abagabo ntutwarwe kugirango udahita urangiza, mbese bikoreho gake gashoboka.
Menya kumenera uwo mwashakanye amavangingo Iyo uri kumena amavangingo menya neza ko utagomba gukoresha ibibaraga byinshi kugirango yumwe umunezero igihe ari kuyamena, sibyiza ko ubitangira ngo nurangiza ubicemo kabiri cyangwa utangire kwitaba telefone kuko abagore barabikunda cyane baba bumva bameze nkabari mu ijuru burya yanagukubita niho uburyohe bw’imibonano baba babwumvira.
Sibyiza kandi ko umubaza uko ari kubyumva cyangwa se ngo umuvugisha mugeze kuri iyi ntera ahubwo we kuko yaryohewe mureke utege amatwi imitoma agiye ku kubwira kubera ko uburyohe bwamusaze.
Kumenya neza ko washimishije umugore wawe akarangiza akenshi uzabibwirwa nuko yiruhukuije, ahanini abenshi bakunze guhita banagushimira.
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